Never Give Up!

The Monday Night Football game between the Cowboys and the Bills was one of the most exciting we have seen in a long time. After five turnovers in the first half, the Cowboys trailed by seventeen points. Quarterback Tony Romo, along with the entire team, showed incredible composure in the second half, coming back to score 9 points in the last 20 seconds to win the game. It moved them to a 5-0 record on the season and gave all of us plenty to talk about around the water cooler on Tuesday morning.

Not only was it a tremendous win, but it also demonstrated a great lesson in coming back from failure. Tony Romo in his second season as the Cowboys’ quarterback threw five interceptions, resulting in two Bills’ touchdowns and fumbled away another turnover. Six turnovers in a game is any NFL quarterback’s worst nightmare and could severely impact job security. His performance in the last three minutes of the game, however, demonstrated that Romo could become one of the NFL’s great quarterbacks by maintaining incredible concentration under some of the most strenuous circumstances. Ultimately Romo and the ‘Boys won because they refused to give up.

In October of 1941 the British Prime Minister Winston Churchill was asked to speak at the Harrow School where he had attended as a youth. After summarizing the overwhelming threat that Hitler and Nazi Germany posed for Great Britain and the free world, Churchill spoke these words, “Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never--in nothing, great or small, large or petty--never give in, except to convictions of honor and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.” His iron will and the resolve of the British and American people ultimately prevailed over the Axis threat.

Proverbs 24:17 reminds us, “Though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked are brought down by calamity.” This verse reminds us that failure is a normal part of life. The question is not “Will you fail”, but rather “When will you fail?” We fail at times in our business pursuits, career objectives, financial investments, personal relationships and in our spiritual walk. Sometimes we fail because of bad choices, sometimes due to lack of execution or preparation. Sometimes we fail because we cannot get beyond obstacles that block our path.

My friend in Christ, don’t allow the failures of the past to keep you from tomorrow’s victories. It is time to get up, dust yourself off and get back on that horse. Remember, never, never, never, never give in or give up!

Shoulder to Shoulder,

Gregg

The Lesson in Integrity

For the last twenty years, Dick Knoebel has been the Chief of Police in the small town of Kewaskum, Wisconsin. Last September Chief Knoebel made the national news for writing a ticket to a motorist who drove past a stopped school bus. The ticket resulted in a fine of $235 and an increased insurance premium.

Why did an every day traffic violation make the news? Because the Chief wrote the ticket to himself. He drove past the school bus in his police cruiser with his lights flashing and suddenly realized what he had done. He wrote the ticket to himself and paid the fine. The story surfaced after it showed up in court records and local media reports. Knoebel says he has received 150 congratulatory e-mails from places like Thailand, Russia and New Zealand. Two people offered to send him money to help with the fine, but he turned down the offers.

Dick Knoebel’s actions are a great example of integrity. Someone has defined integrity as what you do when no one else is watching. Integrity implies a consistency with your words and deeds, regardless of the circumstances. Ultimately, integrity goes deeper than your words and deeds, to the core of your being. It is more a matter of who you are, than what you say or do.

Integrity is critical if you are going to honor God in this life. It becomes an internal GPS, sort of a moral compass that guides you through the many temptations which the world throws your way. Without integrity, a man will be loss in the moral relativity that permeates our culture. He will make his choices based on intimidation, greed or blind ambition, rather than the eternal principles of God’s Word.

Proverbs 11:3 reminds us, “The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the crookedness of the treacherous will destroy them.” My brother, I challenge you to be a man of integrity today. Be consistent in what you do and say, that Christ may be honored and you may be blessed.

Shoulder to Shoulder,

Gregg

A Lesson in Obedience

One of my favorite Civil War heroes is General Thomas Jackson, best know as “Stonewall” Jackson. He was given the name “Stonewall” at the first major battle of the Civil War, the First Battle of Bull Run, because he stood like a “stone wall” in the face of a Union counterattack. His life story is well told in the movie Gods and Generals.

Jackson was highly disciplined, courageous and a military genius. He was also known for his fierce loyalty and devotion to Robert E. Lee. On one occasion, Lee sent a message to Jackson to come by his headquarters and visit with him concerning a certain matter the next time he was in the area.

The next morning, Jackson rose well before dawn, riding by horseback through a heavy snow and arriving at Lee’s headquarters just as the General was having breakfast. Lee expressed surprise on seeing Jackson so soon, commenting that his message did not convey a spirit of urgency, but rather asked Jackson to report at his convenience. Jackson responded, “Sir, your slightest wish is my greatest command.”

When our children were small Patti and I wanted them to understand the importance of obeying God. We taught them the scriptural definition of obedience – obedience is doing exactly what I am asked to do, when I am asked to do it, with the right heart attitude. Delayed obedience, incomplete obedience or begrudging obedience is actually disobedience by God’s definition.

Jesus communicated the importance of obedience like this, “If you love me, keep my commandments.” Obedience is one of the clearest evidences of a sincere love for God. My brother, is your obedience to Christ a complete obedience? Is it timely? Is it done with the right heart attitude? If not, join me in asking God to form in you a heart of absolute obedience to Christ.

Shoulder to Shoulder,
Gregg

Tennis Anyone?

As the U.S. Open Tennis Championship moves towards the finals this weekend, I am reminded of a former U.S. Open finalist named Michel Chang. In 1996, Chang was facing Pete Sampras in a rare all-American Open final. Though Chang lost in straight sets, he used the opportunity to do something he did throughout his professional career, point people to Christ.

Over his professional career Michael Chang won 37 tournaments, earning over $19 million and reaching the #2 ranking in the world. His rise to being a top ranked world player started with a huge win in Paris in 1989. Seventeen year old Michael Chang shocked the tennis world by defeating the top rated seeds to win the French Open. He became the youngest man ever to win a Grand Slam event. World Tennis magazine described his performance in Paris as "tennis’s purest example of intelligence."

But Chang had another explanation, one that stayed consistent through the years since he gave his life to Jesus Christ: "I wasn’t playing out there. Jesus Christ is alive and well!" Chang believes his continued success is testimony to something-or Someone-else entirely.

"People sometimes ask me, 'Don't you wish you were bigger?' There’s a reason God made me 5-foot-9 in a world where the average height of players is 6-foot-2. If I’m able to go out and win a tournament, it’s really to God’s glory. It obviously has nothing to do with my height or anything else." "I felt God used me to show the world that you don’t always have to be bigger or stronger to come out on top. When the Lord is with you and wants you to be victorious, you will be."

When discussing his incredible achievements in the world of professional tennis, Chang has said, “Success for me is using my talents in the way that God wants me to use them. When you touch people in a Christ-like way, it lasts a lifetime. That’s the way success should be defined." What a great reminder that true success will ultimately be measured by what you take with you into eternity. Only two things last forever, the Word of God and the souls of people. The time and energy you commit to influencing people for Christ is an eternal investment. True success will be defined by who is in heaven because you took the time to tell them about Christ.

Proverbs 11:30 reminds us, “The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and he who wins souls is wise.” Let’s follow Michael Chang’s example and start touching people around us in a Christ-like way.

Shoulder to Shoulder,

Gregg

Don't Forget to Date Your Wife

After a summer break, I am personally recharged and back with lots of new, interesting stories for my weekly men’s devotional.

Most of us are counting the hours until the opening kickoff of professional football next week. Dallas Cowboys fans are pinning their hopes on new coach Wade Phillips. Phillips brings over twenty years of NFL coaching experience to the Cowboys. He also brings something else, an understanding and appreciation of the importance of family.

Hours after being hired as the Cowboys head coach, one reporter asked Phillips how he felt about public sentiment that he is not a sexy hire. "Well," the 59-year-old coach chuckled, "I don't know if my wife would say that."

In a February interview with the Dallas Morning News, Phillips mentioned that throughout his coaching career, he has maintained a standing date night with his wife. Every Friday night he takes Laurie out on a date. He stated that he learned the importance of maintaining a strong marriage after watching his father, legendary coach “Bum” Phillips, spend time with his mother.

In making his marriage a priority, Phillips is providing a great example for his coaches, players, fans and especially, his children. As a successful coach, Phillips understands that winning games requires time, energy and hard work. Being an effective husband and father is not so different. A marriage is too important to take for granted. It must be fed, nurtured and protected.

Ephesians 5 reminds us, “So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it …” Perhaps it is time to take an inventory on your commitment to your marriage. Take a tip from Wade Phillips and start dating again. Oh, and “Go Cowboys!”

Shoulder to shoulder,

Gregg

It's Never Too Late!

Recently Robert Nuranen returned a library book to his local library in Hancock, Michigan. Normally, an event like this would not draw a lot of attention. This one, however, made the national news, because along with the book Nuranen handed the librarian a check for $171.32 to cover 47 years worth of late fees.

The book Prince of Egypt, with its last due date stamped June 2, 1960, was part of the young Nuranen’s fascination with Egypt. He said his mother misplaced the book while cleaning the house. The family came across it every so often, only to set it aside again. He found it recently while looking through a box in the attic. “I figured I’d better get it in before we waited another 10 years,” he said after returning it. He added, “Fifty-seven years would be embarrassing.”

Nuranen said he went on to visit Egypt and 54 other countries, and all 50 states, but he never did finish the book. He now lives in Los Angeles, where he teaches seventh-grade social studies and language arts. Commenting on Nuranen, librarian Sue Zubiena said, “The library had long ago lost any record of the book. I’m going to use it as an example. It’s never too late to return your books.”

Men, there are some other things that it is never too late to do. It is never too late to start telling your wife that you love her or your children that you are proud of them or your parents that you appreciate them. It is never too late to ask forgiveness for wrongs committed or say you are sorry. It is never too late to start spending time with God in Bible Study and prayer or sharing the gospel with other people.

Hebrews 3:7-8 reminds us, “So, as the Holy Spirit says: "Today, if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts ....” When God speaks, we become instantly accountable to what He tells us. Thankfully we do not have to live in the prison of the past. Through God’s grace and forgiveness we can start again fresh and new.

Shoulder to Shoulder,

Gregg

How's Your Attitude?

With the 2007 baseball season in full swing, here is a great story to remind you of the importance of attitude. Larry King, the CNN interviewer and radio/TV personality, tells of a visit to Miami’s Joe Robbie Stadium before a spring training game. King says manager Tommy Lasorda was introducing him to players and having a good time. They walked past Eddie Murray at first base and Lasorda said, ‘Hey, Eddie, how you doing?’ Murray replied simply, ‘Okay.’

At that, Lasorda went wild. “Okay? Okay? Two million dollars a year. It’s March. There ain’t a cloud in the sky. You’re standing there wearing a major-league uniform. You’re thirty-three years old, you’re going to the Hall of Fame, and you’re saying okay? You say, ‘Great, Tommy!’” Murray, looking at Lasorda like he was a maniac, seemed at a loss for words. Lasorda tried again, “You say it: ‘I feel great!’” So Eddie started saying, “I feel great!”

I have heard my friend Bill Glass, professional football player and evangelist, say many times, “Your attitude determines your altitude.” By that he means that you will only go as far in life as your attitude allows. Nobody wants to be around or follow someone with a bad attitude.

How do you change your attitude? Your attitude is shaped by what you think about. Our tendency is to focus on the negative, what someone has aptly called, “stinkin’ thinkin.” Too often we are fixated on the challenging circumstances of our life. While you may not be able to change your circumstances, you can change your attitude. Perhaps you have heard the old rhyme, “Two men looked past prison bars. One saw mud, the other saw stars.”

Philippians 4:8 reminds us of the importance of what we think about, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.” Men, I encourage you to do an attitude check. Is your attitude in line with things mentioned in the verse above? If not, what will you do about it?

Shoulder to Shoulder,

Gregg

Don't Give Up!

In his book A Call to Excellence, author Gary Inrig describes the record for the shortest major league baseball career in history. Harry Hartman was pitching for the old Brooklyn Dodgers. He was a gifted young ballplayer whose day of glory arrived in 1918 when he was called up from the minors to pitch against the Pittsburgh Pirates.

As he approached the mound, he was thinking that this was the moment he had dreamed about, the beginning of a great career. His dreams began to fade, however, when his first pitch was hit for a single. The next batter tripled. Rattled, Hartman walked the next batter and the next hit for a single. The next batter tripled. Rattled more, he walked the next batter on four straight pitches, and when he did throw a strike to the next hitter, it went for a single.

Frustrated and dejected, Hartman had had enough. He headed for the showers, dressed, and walked out of the stadium to a naval recruiting office, where he enlisted. The next day, he was in a military uniform, never to be heard from in professional baseball again.

When I read that story, I wondered if Hartman ever had regrets about giving up too quick on professional baseball. Think of all the time and energy he expended to get to the place of being a major league ball player. What if he had stayed in baseball, practicing more and working harder to be a better pitcher? Could he have had a long, successful career in baseball? Could he have made the All-Star team or even been a Hall of Famer? You and I will never know the answer to those questions because Harry Hartman quit.

Are you considering quitting something because it is hard? Let’s face it, sometimes it is hard to be married, to be a father, to stay with a challenging career or to build a ministry. At times quitting looks very attractive as a quick way to escape the pressure, discouragement or boredom of hard things. God has a strong word for those who look at quitting as an easy way out, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up"(Galatians 6:9).

God promises to honor our efforts if our desire is to please Him and grow His Kingdom. Perhaps we will not see the full results of our perseverance in this life, but there is a payday someday, when God will reward your work.

Shoulder to Shoulder,

Gregg